Blackberry - Where is the Option: Delete on Mailbox and Handheld?

The option to Delete on Mailbox and Handheld can be found here:

1- Go into your messages
2- Highlight the very top row which is today's date
3- Press Enter
4- Select Full Menu (if you don't see "Options")
5- Select Options
6- Select Email Reconciliation
7- Select Delete On: Mailbox & Handheld

This will delete that email on both the handheld and the server.

Also under General Options:
Auto More: Yes/No
Confirm Delete: Yes/No
Confirm Mark Prior Opened: Yes/No
Keep Messages: 15 days - 60 days or Forever

Also under Options:
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